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Barbara Barnes's avatar

When I was small grandparents would say a good marriage is a blessing and then you get married. There are many times that it doesn’t feel like a blessing. I think we do women a disservice by not being honest with them about embracing a natural role in marriage. When I gave up my independence after 15 years of marriage and decided to fully commit to my husband the marriage became a decision and a commitment and now much joy.

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Katharine R.'s avatar

So Beautiful!!! I am currently peeling apart what society has taught us about marriage and how women in marriage should act. Independence was my middle name! Lol! My kids always come first, but now working so hard to be of service to everyone in my family. My husband and I have been together for 22 years (since high school). The past year and a half has been a lot of hard work to undo so much. To be more giving to my husband. Less on this self care. And you know what?! I feel so well taken care of, happier, and healthier. It is hard, but I am so happy to be on this new journey with him! Thank you for your wonderful words of wisdom. Love this!

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