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I have been where Prairie Mom is. I thought it was my personality, not being able to dawdle. Type A right? The song that came to mind is a Veggie Tales one(https://bigidea.fandom.com/wiki/Busy,_Busy). "I'm busy, busy, dreadfully busy

You've no idea what I have to do.

Busy, busy, shockingly busy

Much, much too busy for you." I grew up with a hard working mom, she still is, but ultimately it comes across as "much much too busy for you" sometimes. Even as a 43 year old...(young?) woman that stings a bit. I can see how my mom steps into the habit, as do I, of doing all there is to do. A habit is easy. I try with my 8 children to stop and linger. It takes effort and I frequently miss moments. I have to remember my "to do's" are not eternal, but my husband and children are. Let me consciously choose them over what I "have to" do, is my supplication.

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I don’t even think I could dawdle if I tried. I have recently come to realize how BUSY and hectic my life is. My mind is always whirling with the next task and my body is worn down with the stresses of this BUSY life I have chosen. I am not doing it well. I admit that. I need to learn how to let go of things that don’t matter, balance the things that are left, take time with my children, stop DOING and start dawdling. Thanks for writing this. It confirms for me some things that I have been pondering over the last couple months.

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